World View Perspective: Finding Our Own Inner Integrity

 As we are born and 'waved' through by our initial caregivers; parents, grandparents, extended family, we develop all our initial aspects of physical, emotional, mental, psychological, intellectually, psychic and spiritual aspects.  Much of what we learn is formed around the parents or first caregivers ideas of us and also themselves, based on their experiences.  Roles, gender, early signs of strengths and weaknesses, early signs or signals of talent or innate abilities or understanding and how best they can relate to us as we form.

Once we have gone to and through all the ages and stages of our growth and development, what's been required, requested and sustained into adulthood through all needed and necessary education, we begin standing on our own two feet!  We have usually grown effectively and efficiently enough to be functional members of the society and family we have initially grown up in!

However, the parental job is long and sometimes difficult and can also introduce various traumas, slow development, lack of overall support, inheriting aspects of the people or environments we've been in or ancestral traits that need additional help and healing.  Maybe not right away but eventually, down the road.  If there has been abuse or neglect or too many hardships, one can even have their own integrity compromised.  Maybe even without their knowledge.  We can inherit the 'shadow' of one of the parents, for example, and not even recognize it.

Maybe we aren't truly addicted to alcohol, drugs, sex, spending money, shopping or any other addictions but rather, we have come through to heal that behavior or trait from a parent or ancestral line.

We may find, as we continue going to and through our lives, our own inner integrity was actually compromised in the process of a parent forcing us to be like them, for whatever reason. We had no choice but to bend to their wishes or stay limited to their idea of life, which could mean our own growth and potential, was indeed impacted and maybe even stunted.

When a bridge has been built for cars to cross over water, and it has sustained that integrity for years, we can count on it.  If one day, three bombs were to hit that bridge, they would close it because the integrity of the bridge has been compromised.  If it stayed operational, lives would be at risk, until it is repaired.

Our human systems are like that!  If they can maintain and be supported in their own integrity, they can stay strong and be counted on.  If they have sustained too many hardships, disrespect, attacks; physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically or otherwise, their own personal integrity may have well been compromised. Maybe this was a survival tactic or the best options for other reasons but it might end up taking its toll.  Any kind of abuse, as we grow and develop can potentially have this affect on our potential true abilities, skills and talents, especially over time, rendering us disabled from becoming all we can be or become.

That is unless or until we access our OWN INNER INTEGRITY.  We do this by recognizing we are not (knot) that person, whose integrity was impacted, but rather ourselves, OUR TRUE SELVES. That TRUE SELF is the ONE WHO KNOWS.  THE ONE WHO KNOWS WHO THEY TRULY ARE WITHIN!  The wisdom and knowledge that whatever they experienced was what they experienced, not a definition or attachment to who they think they were or are.  There is a the clear SELF of the SOUL, who can heal from the past by rebuilding their own INNER INTEGRITY in the current now, no matter what age! Filling in any cracks, consciously, until the past 'breaks' are all sealed up!  No more leaking, tweaking, seeking outer disapproval or love but providing all that from within themselves, drawing on OUR OWN INNER LIGHT to show us the way forward!

OUR OWN LIGHT. wants us to heal and continue on from the experiences of the past.  Standing in our own bright and new, clear and clean, integrity matters!  It will enable us to SHINE, SHINE, SHINE once again, becoming much more WHOLE and COMPLETE once more!  Ultimately, through conscious healing, gratitude and forgiveness, all aspects of us can become clear and it is ALL GOOD!! 

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